Wednesday, September 3, 2014

J+J From East To West







我以为只有我,一直很纠结地认为中国人的表白直至现在还基本停留在平铺直说,陈述明白,无论文学小说,新闻媒体,还是电影,电视,网上等等,隐晦,意识流,寓言,推理,  humour 嘲弄讽刺。。。。。这些就是有人尝试创作也不能有很多读者,可能是文化传统,素质的关系。这次读了儿子和他的team发表在欧洲杂志上的interview对话,一下子让他用Western-style softer sell,和Chinese-style  hard sell 表达了出来,虽然他说的是电影,电视,广告方面,让我欣慰他在中国没有白呆,中国人的理解能力,表达能力还需要很长时间,可能是一代人,他回到美国后,开始努力地在尝试能起到一个桥梁的作用。



"Perhaps predictably, the hard sell is still “far more effective in China,” notes Shao. “If you’re creative, the soft sell is always more interesting and creatively stimulating, but it’s just not as effective with the general population.” But the times they are a’changing. "


Directors Profile: J+J; From East To West

Published on 4th August 2014

Directors Jing Shao and Jess Zou talk honesty, mutual inspiration and Chinese advertising. Taken from shots 151.
As  directors Jing Shao and Jess Zou, aka J+J, find the honesty, mutual inspiration and constant debate between them aids their work. Their stylish ads for Intel, Levi’s and others have got them signed to Untitled in LA and, as they tell Iain Blair, they’re on a shared mission to bring more truth and a Western-style softer sell to China’s advertising

The flow of art and commerce from one part of the world to another has never been a one-way street, so during an era when the West has been eagerly exploring and tapping the vast potential of the Chinese marketplace, the Chinese have also been busy expanding into the lucrative American and European markets. And it’s no longer just about cheap electronics, furniture and clothing. The latest Chinese cultural fashions and advertising trends are also driving the engines of international commerce, as evidenced by the growing US profile of directing duo Jess Zou and Jing Shao – together known as J+J.
Based in Shanghai, J+J are well known in their native China and throughout Asia where their stylish work is admired for its contemporary look and bold use of colour and music. They have already directed an impressive, original long-form commercial for Intel and the short film Le Carrousel for Trendiano, a high-fashion Chinese brand, as well as eye-catching campaigns for Hilton, adidas, and Baileys. Most recently the duo completed a Levi’s campaign, starring the Chinese editor of Marie Claire, Frankie Han, which is currently running throughout Southeast and East Asia. And while the pair may still be relatively undiscovered in the West, all that’s about to change. J+J recently signed with Jim and Kristin Evan’s commercial production company Untitled the LA-based entity that represents an elite roster of directors working in commercials, film, TV and web content. And they plan to set up a Los Angeles base later this summer.

Expecting the unexpected
 “Signing with Untitled is very exciting for us, and we really feel a sense of teamwork and family with them already,” reports Shao. “Having a rep and a production company work with you is rather rare in China for commercial directors. When Jess and I began, we worked freelance, and we still work freelance there, so this is all new to us. We’ve talked to other international directors, but we don’t know yet quite what to expect. We do know it gives us a sense of security, and a great opportunity to build on a relationship that is creative, collaborative and that’ll help us grow as directors.”
They go on to stress that collaboration is a key factor in all their productions. “We use a lot of the same team for many of our commercials in China,” adds Zou, “and this was a good fit for us.” Shao notes that J+J first came to Untitled’s attention through a former university classmate of his who had worked with Jim Evans on several productions in LA. “When Jim was helping an agency look for young directors in China for a high-profile commercial to be shot there, [my ex-classmate] suggested us,” he recalls. Even though J+J didn’t land the job, they made the short list – and a big impression. “Jim really liked our reel, and he approached us right away about representing us – which was kind of a shock,” he says. “That was just at the end of last year, so it’s moved very quickly.”


Chinese buy into the hard sell
Looking at the commercial industry in general, Shao says that he’s “really glad” he’s spent so much time working in China. “It’s allowed me to see and appreciate the differences between China and America,” he explains. “There are so many opportunities in China, and our careers have taken off so fast. At the same time, there are some big challenges that I feel would turn off a lot of filmmakers.” These include “the sort of immature boards we get most of the time from the agencies there,” adds Zou. “But then you have more freedom to change those boards, and we’re always very honest with them about what we feel will work. We always push to make them better.”
Perhaps predictably, the hard sell is still “far more effective in China,” notes Shao. “If you’re creative, the soft sell is always more interesting and creatively stimulating, but it’s just not as effective with the general population.” But the times they are a’changing. “Chinese agencies are realising that the hard sell isn’t always the best way,” says Zou. “But it still varies so much from client to client and agency to agency,” Shao adds. “Everyone has a totally different idea of what’s good, what works, so it’s pretty crazy.”
By comparison, they point out, American ads tend to rely on humour “or a joke with a single punch-line,” Shao notes. “You don’t see much of that in China, where commercials use a lot of beautiful aesthetics, whereas US ads are often very simple and down-to-earth on purpose.”




China’s truth/image tension
With their “commitment to authenticity” and documentary style, J+J are well aware of the central role ‘truth in advertising’ plays in their work, especially in the Chinese market. “The whole concept of ‘saving face’ is so ingrained and important in our culture,” notes Zou. “So even if you have no money, you will organise the most expensive meal you can in order to impress your guest. And that philosophy carries over – not only into how the clients want to present themselves – but into what people want to see,” Shao explains. As an example, he cites their home base of Shanghai and the stark contrasts between the glittering new city and the back alleys of the old town. “We love the street culture and old buildings, but not only is that something our clients never want to see – it’s also something that the local consumers never want to see either,” he says.
Shao asserts that that tension – between portraying ‘the truth’ and ‘the image’ – is definitely a big element in Chinese advertising. “Commercials are all about presenting an ideal – of a brand or a lifestyle – but at the same time you want to be honest. And I think for a lot of Chinese, who are all striving to reach their potential in a developing country, they also want to see this ideal image. They don’t want to see the harsh reality of the truth.”
But as with the hard sell, attitudes about how truthful advertising can, and should be are gradually changing, “especially among the younger generation in more creative fields,” Zou says. She notes that modern urban Chinese now “live in a world of advertising.” Adds Shao, “So when you’re bombarded with these idealised ‘untruthful’ images all the time, you seek something more authentic after a while – something that connects on a more personal level. And I think China’s now moving into that era. And like everything in China today, it’s happening really fast. It took a few decades for US advertising to move from the sanitized images of the 50s and 60s to the grittier reality you get today. In China, it’ll probably take just a few years.”

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

走进白宫








上星期二去了DC , white house 白宫工作的Will,为我们安排了参观tour

Will是我上海老朋友的儿子,看着他和我儿子一起长大,他年长3岁,先去了西点军校,毕业后在军队服役五年,去了阿富汗,回来又去了哈佛读MBA, 脱离了军队,先在政府财政部,后来就进入了白宫,加入了白宫奥巴马的顾问team。旁人都为他骄傲,可父母心里暗暗矛盾,苦诉这个儿子是为国家养的,几年未能见几面。



white house这栋白房子是普通的?,也是著名的,全世界都知道的美国总统府,由于美国的建国理念,自由和平等,选出来的总统也是为公民服务的,所以白宫是开放的,记得刚来美国时,只要是公民,在开放时间排队都可以参观。

WashingtonDC, 也算去过多次,一般是在樱花盛开时节,记得在铁栅栏外瞧瞧,白宫还是很贴近,这次一看至少圈出了20公尺远,到处是警察和便衣警察,进去第一道检查是每个人要站在狼狗面前被闻一闻,有点闻所未闻,在白宫内也严禁摄影,录像。想来自从“911”后,白宫的戒严和安全保卫日以阶深,真有点草木皆兵啊。







1800年,从第二届美国总统约翰·亚当斯开始,白宫为每一个美国总统的官邸。
这房子是由爱尔兰出生的詹姆斯·霍本设计,用的新古典主义风格, 17921800年间建成的白色油漆Aquia溪砂岩外观。

1814年,1812年的战争中,豪宅被英国陆军在华盛顿纵火燃烧,破坏了内部和炭化很多外部。总统詹姆斯·门罗搬进后部分重建。

由于行政大楼拥挤,1901年八年后西奥多·罗斯福总统把所有工作办公室搬迁至新建成的EEOB.  总统威廉·霍华德·塔夫脱建立了第一个椭圆形办公室.

如今,白宫包括行政公寓WEST座,EAST座,艾森豪威尔行政办公楼EEOB,原国务院,现在安置了总统的工作人员和副总统和布莱尔宫。 EEOB,术语被白宫用来作为转喻美国总统执行办公室和总统的管理和顾问,如“白宫已决定......”的最高指挥所。

 EEOB



白宫除了第一届总统George Washington,已进住了43届美国总统。白宫的历史也是美国历史的缩影,从那里发出过无数牵动世界命运的指令。



白宫 也会在一些特殊的日子,由总统和夫人举行一些亲民活动

 performs at the White House for International Women's Day




Saturday, August 23, 2014

鹤立鸡群


我家附近county的那个自然环境保护区,今年突然想起用我们税人的钱服务于纳税人,花200百万的钱打造了一下,在山,湖之间,桥是桥,路是路,在湖边点缀“boathouse”饭店,boat港口,凉亭。。。。。如似我家后花园,这就是我经常流连往返的那个湖,我这个纳税人一定要好好享用。


 在湖边走一圈,大约40分钟,2个码儿,今年的夏天气温非常好,没有走一圈大汗淋漓的时候,湖面上碧波粼粼,山丘上幽绿葱葱树林的倒影在微风中荡漾,大雁,野鸭是常客,成群地在湖上栖息,游憩,乌龟也经常会露出脸来晒晒太阳,蜻蜓,蝴蝶追逐嬉戏,和我一样这里也是他们喜爱的地方,前几天,我一踏进湖边,一只仙鹤,孤单只影,亭亭玉立地在湖中,我分外欣喜,是只蓝顶灰鹤,昂着长长的脖子,左顾右盼,似乎在等我照相。





今晨去了湖边,因昨晚下了一晚的雨,湖边的一切都还湿润着,湖面一片平静,没有阳光,只见薄薄的一层水雾,哦一只白鹤,好漂亮,忽而起飞,忽而在湖边散步,悠闲自在。







鹤的孤影单行,让我想起成语 《鹤立鸡群》,这人们经常对
人群中很有才学,身材魁梧,仪表堂堂。无论在哪里都显得超群的比喻,还有孤傲,清高,寡言,不入群的品性。动物,人类一样,较稀有品种终是少数,昵显珍贵。



鹤立鸡群【出处】嵇绍入洛,或谓王戎曰:昨于稠人中始见嵇绍,昂昂然若野鹤之在鸡群。  晋·戴逵《竹林七贤论》嵇延祖卓卓如野鹤之在鸡群。  




嵇绍是魏晋之际竹林七贤稆坐嵇康的儿子,他体态魁伟,聪明英俊,在同伴中非
常突出。晋惠帝时,嵇绍官为侍中。当时皇族争权夺利。互相攻杀,史称为“八王之
乱”,嵇绍对皇帝始终非常忠诚。有一次都城发生变乱,形势严峻,嵇绍奋不顾身奔
进官去。守卫宫门的侍卫张弓搭箭,准备射他。侍卫官望见嵇绍正气凛然的仪青,
连忙阻止侍卫,并把弓上的箭抢了下来。不久京城又发生变乱,嵇绍跟随晋惠帝,
出兵迎战于汤阳,不幸战败,将士死伤逃亡无数只有嵇绍始终保护着惠帝,不离左
右。敌方的飞箭,象雨点般射过来,嵇绍身中数箭,鲜血直流,滴在惠帝的御袍上。
嵇绍就这样阵亡了。


常在湖边走



 





Wednesday, August 13, 2014

她走了---Lauren Bacall,



 这几天,好莱坞相继死了两位,Robin Williams,和 Lauren Bacall, 

 Robin Williams 63岁,患忧郁症自杀身亡,他还是一位好莱坞很受欢迎的“笑星”,很讽刺,他搞笑的电影,我看的时候总是笑不出来,搞笑似卖笑,强颜欢笑让人难受,我感觉他的眼睛忧郁,眼神游离,心里没有爱,是在哭,可能是我的问题,只能说他对演艺倾注全身心,很尽职,这个世界上两重性格的人太多,何况有病者。只是哀叹。

老牌女演员劳伦·白考尔 (Lauren Bacall) 是在家中与世长辞,享年89岁。这是寿终正寝,这位女人不凡,眼神坚定,自信而洒脱。在好莱坞黄金年代,劳伦·白考尔以冷艳、知性美的气质从一众风情万种的女郎中脱颖而出,一起来翻翻她的经典照片缅怀这位清丽佳人吧!

特喜欢她的经典老相片,贴几张纪念她!





曾经介绍他和鲍嘉的电影《《To Have and Have Not》 它的故事背景是二次世界大战法国被德国纳粹占领时的马蒂尼岛,原著小说是海明威Ernest Hemingway作品 中较弱的一部,但是经由威廉•福克纳William Faulkner参与编剧之后,在经过导演霍华德•霍克斯Howard Hawks把它拍得相当风趣幽默,并将浪漫的爱情与紧张的冒险气氛一炉共 冶,使得全片对白精炼,男女主角亨弗莱•鲍嘉 Humphrey Bogart 劳伦•白考尔 Lauren Bacall的对手戏碰撞出迷人的火花,喜欢鲍嘉那玩世不恭的外表,欲藏着一颗正直,善良的心,后来二人果真假戏真做变成了真正的夫妻。鲍嘉饰演一艘专门接待游客海钓的游艇船主,本来生活优闲,后来前往旅馆收账时遇到神秘性感 的女扒手白考尔,顿时心猿意马。在一连串的事件发生之后,鲍嘉决定冒险将白考尔和法国地下抵抗分子运送到美国去。劳伦•白考尔 Lauren Bacall演的角色很有个性,演了一个具有女人一切的女人。那一年,她只有十九岁。













以冷漠的神情和性感低沉的嗓音在好莱坞独树一格。她在中学华业后接受过短期的戏剧训练,也在百老汇演出过小角色,后改行成为纽约的一名高级模特儿,她的 一张封面照片被大导演霍华赫克斯的夫人发现而引荐给丈夫。白考儿的第一部电影《逃亡》便跟当时的首席巨星合演,她特殊的风韵深深吸引了男主角亨佛莱鲍嘉, 两人于45年步入礼堂。婚后又合作多部叫好叫座的电影,他俩关系一直非常密切而亲爱。67年鲍嘉因病去逝,白考儿守寡四年之后又嫁给演员小杰逊罗巴滋,可 惜维持不久,最后也以离婚收场。70年代白考儿在银幕上的作品已大为减少,反而80年代在百老汇的演出颇为轰动,两度获得东尼奖。



Friday, August 8, 2014

吴越之争








吴越之争,“卧薪尝胆”是经典的中国历史故事。说起来先生是吴国人,江苏江阴,我呢是越国人,浙江绍兴,历史上这著名的吴越之争,几十代的轮回,历史重回让我们碰上了。呵呵,当我戏谑数落他,你们吴国人,江阴强盗无锡贼,常州乌龟癦嚓黑,他马上就会反唇相讥,你们越国人,杭州橄榄头,宁波夯郎头,绍兴师爷,“卧薪尝胆”,君子报仇十年不晚,最后把我们吴国灭了。

人性的脆弱,恩怨相报,纠缠不清的国仇,家仇,宗教派别之间的争斗,充斥着人类的历史,无论是国家,地方,村庄,家族,家庭,个人,这一则是帮派权力,再则就是面子,不能输,不能蒙羞,一定要报仇,岂知每一次争斗总会有输赢,这样就血腥的没完没了。

吴越之争,最值得深思的是,越王勾践刚刚灭吴称霸,他封手下最大之功臣范蠡为将军,精明强干的范蠡深知大名之下难以久居,故功成立即带上西施隐退,范蠡遣人致书文种,谓飞鸟尽,良弓藏;狡免死,走狗烹。越王为人长项鸟啄,可与共患难,不可与共乐,子何不去?结果 文种未能听从,不久果被勾践赐剑自杀。

伍子胥、文种之命运,以及范蠡之精辟警句,说明了古来中国历代屡验不爽的一个真理:为人臣者最忌功高震主,切记功成隐退。因为自古迄今为人君者多属可共患难,不可共富贵的忘恩负义之辈,若不及时抽身自不免被赐死而终。



西风愆阳
越水茫茫
春日迟迟
淑女采桑

七月流火
八月芦花
满汀州


九月肃霜
十月蟋蟀
入我床

万物熙熙
白驹黄鸟
鱼潜在渊
鹤鸣慢飞翔

越国啊,故乡
绱徉啊绱徉
感生悼死
魂归何方。。。。何方





『可惜电视剧里的西施很让人失望,哪像越女西施啊』





吴越之争,其实是讲了两国君主的故事,是非好坏任由后人评判了,




公元前496年,吴王派兵攻打越国,被越王勾践打得大败,吴王也受了重伤,临死前,嘱咐儿子夫差要替他报仇。夫差牢记父亲的话,日夜加紧练兵,准备攻打越国。 过了两年,夫差率兵把勾践打得大败,勾践被包围,无路可走,准备自杀。这时谋臣文种劝住了他,说:吴国大臣伯贪财好色,可以派人去贿赂他。勾践听从了文种的建议,就派他带着美女西施和珍宝贿赂伯嚭,伯答应带西施和文种去见吴王。   文种见了吴王,献上西施,说:越王愿意投降,做您的臣下伺候您,请您能饶恕他。伯也在一旁帮文种说话。伍子胥站出来大声反对道:人常说‘治病要除根’,勾践深谋远虑,文种、范蠡精明强干,这次放了他们,他们回去后就会想办法报仇的!这时的夫差以为越国已经不足为患,又看上了西施的美色,就不听伍子胥的劝告,答应了越国的投降,把军队撤回了吴国。   吴国撤兵后,勾践带着妻子和大夫范蠡到吴国伺候吴王,放牛牧羊,终于赢得了吴王的欢心和信任。三年后,他们被释放回国了。   

勾践回国后,立志发愤图强,准备复仇。他怕自己贪图舒适的生活,消磨了报仇的志气,晚上就枕着兵器,睡在稻草堆上,他还在房子里挂上一只苦胆,每天早上起来后就尝尝苦胆,门外的士兵问他:你忘了三年的耻辱了吗?他派文种管理国家政事,范蠡管理军事,他亲自到田里与农夫一起干活,妻子也纺线织布。勾践的这些举动感动了越国上下官民,经过十年的艰苦奋斗,越国终于兵精粮足,转弱为强。   


再说吴王夫差自从战胜越国后,以为没有了后顾之忧,从此沉迷于西施的美色,过着骄奢淫逸的生活。他又狂妄自大,不顾人民的困苦,经常出兵与其它国家打伏。他还听信伯的坏话,杀了忠臣伍子胥。这时的吴国,貌似强大,实际上已经是走下坡路了。   公元前482年,夫差亲自带领大军北上,与晋国争夺诸侯盟主,越王勾践趁吴国精兵在外,突然袭击,一举打败吴兵,杀了太子友。夫差听到这个消息后,急忙带兵回国,并派人向勾践求和。勾践估计一下子灭不了吴国,就同意了。公元前473年,勾践第二次亲自带兵攻打吴国。这时的吴国已经是强弩之末,根本抵挡不住越国军队,屡战屡败。最后,夫差又派人向勾践求和,范蠡坚决主张要灭掉吴国。夫差见求和不成,才后悔没有听伍子胥的忠告,非常羞愧,就拔剑自杀了。

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

夏日吟诗






 夏日能吟诗,一定还没有到酷暑,但有人说夏日吟诗,心静自然凉。

周围世界浮躁,蛮横自我,守着一块内心自然之地,任由夏热冬凉春秋去。

想起李清照有一首《夏日绝句》,这样语出惊人,正气豪气,哪像出自一位女子。


夏日绝句


生当做人杰,  死亦为鬼雄。

至今思项羽,  不肯过江东。



如梦令.常记溪亭日暮

--李清照


常记溪亭日暮, 沉醉不知归路。

兴尽晚回舟,误入藕花深处。

争渡,争渡,惊起一滩鸥鹭。




 渔家傲

 ---王安石


平岸小桥千嶂抱,

揉兰一水萦花草。

茅屋数间窗窈窕。

尘不到,

时时自有春风扫。



午枕觉来闻语鸟,

攲眠似听朝鸡早。

忽忆故人今总老。

贪梦好,

茫然忘了邯郸道。






桂枝香.金陵怀古

---王安石

登临送目,正故国晚秋,天气初肃。

千里澄江似练,翠峰如簇。

归帆去棹斜阳里,背西风,酒旗斜矗。

彩舟云淡,星河鹭起,画图难足。


念往昔、繁华竞逐,叹门外楼头,悲恨相续。

千古凭高,对此漫嗟荣辱。

六朝旧事如流水,但寒烟、衰草凝绿。

至今商女,时时犹唱,后庭遗曲。



Sunday, July 6, 2014

夏日碎片




夏日碎片

最近,我时常孤独一人在湖边走,别人看来我很寂寞,其实,诚然不是,我非常喜欢这样的状态。突然有了想分享一下这样感觉的愿望。我试着发一个短信给附近的几位女朋友,介绍了我近来经常在湖边走的环境,心情,约她们来湖边走走,还以湖边也有美式饭店为诱,她们果然马上响应,我说,谁愿意可以先提早一小时到,在湖边走走,欣赏一下大自然的美景,然后再进餐。结果是,她们都把先生带来了,可事实是提早来湖边漫步的只有一对夫妇,其他都直奔饭馆,在饭桌上好热闹,男士之间的谈话我没顾得上,几位女朋友谈的兴致勃勃,个个show出手机,从带的首饰,用的美容产品,名牌包,染的头发,修得指甲,哪里有好看便宜的衣服,。。。。所有女人的话题,我竟插不上嘴,显得很落伍,看着她们谈的很享受,我默默地赶快低头猛吃。


我从09年 开始上网,很好奇,作为体验生活,也跟着一起成长,但一点也不见长进,尤其是网站上流行写八卦,咒文,呼风唤雨,打情骂俏,或是琐琐碎碎,什麽家里事都可以公开的文字,我都不会,怎么也学不会,在网上陷架更是不知所措,自己觉得好似一异类,认真的有点咬文嚼字,不能容纳。不过还好我也有收获,建立了一个个人的blog已有3年多了,也有少少我珍惜的网友。我细想起来其实是自己订了上网的原则,这些原则和网上的世界是格格不入的,我不是江湖之人,不过说实话,我也暗暗地庆幸着呢。

上网,在十年前可能是一件新鲜事,人们可以在一个互不认识的屏面前说话写字,让人自如,有发泄,表达的兴奋感,如果得到别人的认可更是陶醉,增加自信性,而且,网上也没有规定应该是怎么写,文字很自由,文章的格式也不具一格,这种平民式的文字称为网文,趁势也有人成立了网站,让通过上网这样的平台,让许多人有地方交流,有幸也可偶遇知音,至于网站的效果如何,那也是从野蛮走向文明,混乱走向秩序的蹉跎过程。确实有不少人写了小说,诗,散文而始露风芒,名声雀跃。但多数一般的网文只能是过眼烟云。
有了blog的形式,完全是个人独语,或有自己的兴趣分享,可有范围的阅读,交流,这形式对不带有出名欲望,只想默默记录一些个人的想法,交友,见识很合适,真有出现了一人一博的普遍流行,后来又有了微博,微信。。。。。现在已成了生活不可缺少的一部分。


叔本华《论美》里引述了柏拉图的理念,我整理了一下这段在网上讨论的内容。
“ 关于美的形而上学:某一事物在我们的意欲没有任何关联的情况下,这一事物引起我们的某种愉悦之情。
在美的事物里总可以认识到有生命的和没有生命的大自然的基本和原始的形态,亦即柏拉图的理念:这种认识的前提条件就是这些形态的根本对应物摆脱了意欲的认识主体,即不带目的和打算的纯粹智力。当我们开始认识美的时候,意欲也就因此完全从意识中消失了

只有意欲才是我们一切悲哀痛苦的根源,当意欲消失了才伴随着是对美的认识即我们感受到的愉悦。
作为意欲的世界是第一位的,而作为表象世界是第二位的,前者是欲求的世界,因此充满花样繁多的痛苦和不幸的世界,而后者就其本身而言是没有痛苦的,表象世界包含了让我们一饱眼福的景观,美感愉悦就在于享受这些景观。”《论美》---《叔本华思想随笔》韦启昌译

所 以意欲世界的痛苦本质是肯定的,幸福满意的本质是否定的,『这也就是人们说的叔本华的哲学是悲观主义的哲学』,而美的愉悦世界是当所有的意欲活动在人的意 识中消失以后才能达到。每个人的平衡点都不同,屈原就是很自我,也自闭,不能面对和承受意欲世界那繁多的痛苦和不幸,对周围的一切趋向平衡无能为力了,所 以他只能是一位诗人。



提到self-respect, self-confidence,我认为有天赋的一面,出身高贵,环境优裕,自身完美,这自是向内的,加上后天自我锤炼修养而成,即使有了self- respect, self-confidence,个人具备了这样的素质,但在现实世界中,我觉得还要补充self- conscience良知, self -conscience是面对外部环境,不然一切都是围着自己转了。如果你不是生活在真空中,绝对的自由是没有的。